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Think I am pretty much cured of BL.

Posted by Mattteob on 2026-April-27 16:41:19, Monday

You probably think this is impossible but I have been spending less and less time thinking of boys for a variety of reasons. I guess one is that I am on anti depressants and my sex drive is low but I also find myself more irritated by the average teenage boy where I live. I think they are just so wet. Society has mollycoddled them and pedo hysteria got to their brains so much that they are either timid af or just downright hostile to any adult who even addresses them or attempts a conversation. Apparently 25% of teens are scared to shake hands or make eye contact with someone they don’t know. You just don’t find sparky, intelligent, articulate and funny boys anymore. Nor does summer bring any exciting sites or teasing boys. Those who play football wear bloomers worthy of a Victorian Spinster and socks pulled up so no site of any skin at all. Speedos on the beach even in Italy and France (where you used to get the I know you like what you see boys giving you a wink and a smile and would often be keen to make friends.) I’ve had some online friendships with Filipino boys but they don’t give a stuff about you. They just want money and gifts so I have got rid of them. I’ve never been active or predatory anyway but as I say I never thought I’d say it but I find modern boys a turnoff rather than a turn on. I say this without bitterness as luckily I like women as well. I’m just surprised it has come to this. Does anyone else feel the same?

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