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We definitely have internalized hatred. However, being anti-c is not necessarily about hating pro-c boylovers and pleasing society. It used to be the only viable option because I didn't want to be a bad person. But after thinking for myself, I understand why some people are pro-c. And I chose to be anti-c because if I'm wrong, that's my loss. But if a pro-c BL is wrong, he might have harmed the person he loved. What if it does make them pedophiles too? Or what if they do feel bad about it later? I'm not willing to take that risk just because I'm horny, and I think that everyone should have the same attitude. But I don't blame pro-c people for disagreeing, since I understand their arguments.  |