We talking Parent/Teacher?

Congratulations on learning what BC's unofficial Official Transparency Advocate has been saying for years now. For every hopelessly alienated basement locked cp addict there are probably hundreds of "normal" boylovers who spend their lives engaging with their family and community and spending time with friends old and young. You aren't alone in discovering this truth about life, but you are a bit of an odd man out here at BC where most of the gang, even the registered sex offenders, think that they would be drawn and quartered if they were honest with the people around them about their love of and sexual attraction to children. Most normal child lovers and their allies realize that there is nothing wrong with being oriented towards children, as long as the child lover has made a firm commitment to celibacy. The great thing about being open and honest with trusted friends in the community is that child lovers can ask for and receive support "b4" they molest a child. For example it would make perfect sense to have a child lover volunteer to direct a church play or to lead a group of kids on a hike, but as responsible adults we would make sure that at least one other adult would be there at all times as a "chaperone." Other activities such as overnight sleepovers and activities involving the changing of clothes or showering on the other hand, might not be a great fit for an impulsive child lover with ADHD for example. Responsible trusted adults can not help each other make healthy decisions unless those with "issues" talk about them openly and honestly. Ideally every child lover would disclose his orientation with the people they spend time with, day to day. Just like an alcoholic will gently remind his friends that he doesn't drink until they learn to stop offering him drinks. Sure, he might lose some friends and opportunities, but with every door that honesty closes comes an open window somewhere else. The only way society is going to learn about the existence of virtuous (non-offending) child lovers is if they meet one in their own community first and realize that these people exist and they can be great neighbors if properly monitored and supported to make healthy choices.