It's as easy as 1 2 3

The first step we have to take is to prioritize children's well being above all else. What does "love" mean if not to put someone else's needs above one's own? Those who can't comprehend what love means are dangers to themselves and others and probably should be closely monitored and/or incarcerated by authorities. Most of us aren't like that. Which brings us to the second step: labeling. We need to differentiate ourselves from those who call themselves "pedophiles" while defining "attraction/love" as the desire to fuck. Those who are the most sure that the family/community/society that children live in would not accept "us" are the same ones who adhere rigidly to pro-crime ideology. They might as well self identify as "monsters," since that is what 99% of the world hears when someone calls themself a "pedophile." Referring to yourself as "boylover" or "MAP" is moving towards taking the second step, but even better would be to not identify yourself as anything. Just call yourself a friend or better yet focus on the overlapping group that you and a loved child belong to. Fellow church member. On the same sports team. In the same band. Belonging to the same neighborhood organization. An unofficial Official Uncle to unofficial Official niblings. The third and most important step is to focus entyrely on reality and real life young friends. If you aren't loving boys then you literally aren't a boy lover. It's impossible to be a child lover if you never leave the house/hostel. We need to totally eradicate csam. We should hold corporations accountable when their algorithms serve up children's "content" to perverts and people should lose their internet access if they show tendencies to perv on children. The third step is about putting the device down and picking yourself up and going out into the world to LOVE your neighbors in general and specifically children. Be open and transparent about your desire to be a part of your community and take every opportunity to love children in legal and wholesome ways whenever you can. The gays were right to abandon the child molesters. We should likewise abandon the "pedophiles." It's so stupid for 40 year olds to try to recruit young people using the word "pedophile." They sound like Pennywise the Clown saying "It's fun down here as a pedophile." They are so fucked in the head and the problem with many of the most public child love resources on both the clear net and dark web is that most of them are dominated by chronically online self identified pedophiles who would rather engage with boy "content" than reality. We need to abandon that failed ideology to die off like the pagan religions of old, replaced by true LOVE.