And more about the relationship. I don't think it's any safer to take a student home to your apartment and do stuff there. Actually, I think that can be more dangerous because the boy is now in a place "he's not supposed to be". But it will be riskier with students than non-students generally. Advantage to students is that you already have a relationship, so it's easier to build a YF relationship. Disadvantage is the risk of getting caught increases, as do the consequences if caught. As you say, though, it's always a gamble. And even the most careful, experienced BL, if they roll the dice enough times will come up snake eyes. Quantity is probably the bigger risk factor of all. |