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As we all know, BoyChat exists to serve several purposes. One is so there's a place for BoyLovers to just vent their feelings -- to "kvetch" as it were. Another is so there's a place to criticize and detail just how unjust and irrational the legal system we are subject to is. Another is so there's a place for people to express their opinions about what is "moral" and "immoral" BoyLoving. Actually, many/most people here don't seem to understand what "mores" are, what "moral" means, how to use the words "moral" "immoral," and "morality" correctly (that is, more in accord with their dictionary definitions and the grammatical roles those words play in sentences) which I have almost finished preparing a long post about, but that I'm wondering if it's worth the time and effort to do as most of my posts, no matter how valuable I think they are, usually get no responses. Another function BoyChat serves is to educate other BoyLovers on how to stay safe, and how to take reasonable steps (which some feel are more necessary than others, depending on their tolerance for taking risks) to stay out of trouble. The truth is the only way to stay out of trouble is to stop being a BoyLover. But that is as absurd as telling heterosexuals that if they want to prevent rape (real rape, not "rape rape," if you get my drift) then everyone should by law should either be required to cut off their genitals and/or sew closed any orifices that could be penetrated. Oh, and since rape can be performed digitally, then everyone should have their fingers removed. Tongues, too, just to be sure... But I digress. Any time we engage with boys in any way whatsoever we are taking a risk, due to the steps that society is currently taking to try to expose us, apprehend us, and incarcerate us to (supposedly) "protect society/children" from us. [I'll wait a moment for those of you who understand "real" BoyLove to stop laughing.] Well, depending on how much risk you are willing to take, you may think it's OK to think about boys. Or to write about boys. Or to look at boys in public. Or to befriend boys and spend time with them. Or take boys to your house or some other relatively private place and tickle and wrestle with them. Or even surreptitiously touch their genitals so you have masturbation fodder for later that day or night. Or even go all out and masturbate a boy, or suck a boy off. Or more... All those entail risk. None of those is really 100% safe in the Axis of Evil countries. Most of those are still relatively safe outside the Axis of Evil countries. (Aside: That point could suggest a course of action for the smarter BoyLovers reading this, couldn't it?) But we each decide how much risk we want to take, for what benefits we wish to receive. The truth is, most BoyLovers are never caught, even when they DO go "all the way" with a boy. This infuriates the LEO and leads them to make absurd claims that "we will find you and put you in prison! Don't think you can escape!" Yeah, right. Then why do they have to threaten us, if it's so easy for them to catch us? Those threats are actually state-sponsored terrorism. I'm preparing a post on that, too. But maybe I won't, now that I've included that statement here. Anyway, I said I was going to say something important about engaging with boys. It's this: The rule is, NEVER do anything remotely sexual to a boy on any school premises! Doing so is a really foolish thing to do, for a large number of reasons that I don't feel like spending my time listing here because I doubt that the people who need the above advice are going to read this post anyway. Their loss. To repeat, it is A Very Bad Idea to do anything with a boy that could be interpreted as being sexual INSIDE OF ANY SCHOOL OR ANY OTHER EDUCATIONAL OR SOCIAL INSTITUTION! You're inviting trouble if you do. Big trouble... Well, you may or may not agree that this advice is important. But I guarantee you that if you follow that rule you will remove a very big risk from your life as a BoyLover, especially if you work in the field of education. Well, this is for the n00bs. The experienced BoyLovers should already know this. And if any n00b has gotten this far in my post, he will have received some very valuable advice! And if not, then not. M. |