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Posted by Grenfield on 2026-September-15 18:36:33, Tuesday
In reply to Lack of Nerve: Nightlife and Grenfeld? posted by Chuck on 2026-September-15 14:49:24, Tuesday

In hindsight I feel like I was mostly bitching / complaining because the temperature here has fluctuated so much. But I really don’t mind it that much. I just appreciate that this does still feel like a free space to be open about complex topics, and even though some folks here feel angry and like to poke at people sometimes (I admit I am sometimes susceptible and have grown more thin skinned over time but am trying to take each day with more calm and collected feeling) I don’t want people here to feel like they can’t do that. But I also feel like it’s important for a person to also feel free to voice dismay if they feel inclined to as well. I don’t want anything here to change in the grand scheme of things and I feel bad that I have come across as exclusive. So sorry about that.

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