'Identity check addiction disorder'

That one should be included in the next edition of the DSM I believe :D I've never understood why people feel so inclined to share an identity corresponding to their most personal feelings with everyone around them. Well, I can understand that it's helped, politically speaking, the gay community to get accepted and gain some legal rights. But that's still a very strange thing to do, and certainly not helpful for MAPs. We aren't ever going to marry our yfs, are we?^^ So, why would one need any kind of public recognition? I mean, do the parents of one's young friend share with them what they do in their intimate moments, or their sexual fantasies? It would be quite embarrassing, wouldn't it? So why would anyone disclose that they're sexually attracted to their young friend? That's creepy as hell, isn't it? Even as a BL, if I had a child, I wouldn't let any MAP making that confession to me go near him. Because to me, it can only mean that they have no social cues and have no idea how to avoid a scandal. Lots of happy boys to you, FF mi lon. mute mije lili kin li lon. o sina kute e mi, mi ala wile, pilin pona mi li anpa e pilin ante.