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as errant says, they arent really the same thing. theres also a difference between the romajous scenario, and a boy growing up, increasingly moving out into life, and spending less time with their AF. That is painful for the BL, and posts about that scenario might be more supportive. Romajous chose to ditch his nephew, within a day almost, as I understand it. He looked at the boy, saw something he didnt like, and from then on didnt want to be around him. What does this say about BLs? When people claim to love their yfs, what does that mean when they can turn on a dime and not bear to be around them? They loved them, but then somehow didnt? They never really loved them? they still love them but dont want to be with them? What does it say about how bls see their yfs? If as soon as they are sexually unattractive to you , you drop them like a hot potato? what would being "a supportive place for the problems we all face as BLs" look like to you in this case? You didnt reply to his post. |