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What is reasonable?

Posted by Popcorn on 2026-June-8 22:36:21, Monday

I'm for one not here to be "reasoned with", to be asked... "Please be reasonable" is to suggest that the "party" has equity in the deal/negotiation... I/BC have none of that, so I don't pretend to be an influencer.

What I do, do however is make observations, I can remark on the system... the system meaning judicial, mental health, academic, political and economical... I can attest to male youth being full of erotic desire, and sexual energy.

I'm not to be reasoned with, for I'm not making any laws... if however someone may feel embarrassed about how the system is presently, the powers that have made brutal intervention an opportunistic exercise of monetization then perhaps these people may be threatened by common sense, and the harm imposed by draconian policy.

Presently, if, and when a male youth is have found to have been involved in an erotic adventure of physical affection, and erotic pleasures with someone younger or older then himself... it's not like the system allows them to say.. "OK we've been caught, we'll knock it off/stop having fun that way"... no no no the system demands that the harshest most brutal intervention of police, child welfare, and every kind of expert gets involved.

I ask, is that reasonable... don't reason with me! Is it not over the top? Is it not very damaging? It sets up an adversarial conflict with major prejudice... it make the male youth cry, feel extreme humiliation, guilt, and anger. It destroys lives! Instead of being subtle, discrete, and minimizing the situation, this system ops to make hysterical, dramatize, and activate every possible leaver within the system that can "employ" as many experts as it can.

The problem as I see it is everything is a business, and business needs to grow and expand... Child welfare is no different. Multitudes of vested interests need to lobby for more laws, pent up the narratives that make male youth so vulnerable, and asexual with no business being party to erotic gratification until that male turns 18yo...

The exaggeration, and pent up narratives are alarming in many walks of business... The food bank has become an industry, with people pulling up in their cars for food to these giant warehouses that systematically are delivered food of every kind. (this started with church basements doing emergency deliveries to a very few people in dire need).

The SPCA run adds showing little puppies freezing in a blizzard, abandoned. The times that that may have happened is next to what? yet, they pull in tons of cash, most are free fed by huge dog food companies, and the municipal "CEO" make over $100K

Government itself is riddled with business deals, and must grow their brand...

It's not a question of being reasoned with, it's more asking what is reasonable... and it's in that capacity this culture has lost it. (IMO)

To me it's not reasonable if a 12, 14, or 16yo shares in erotic passion play with someone younger or older and then has to face without any agency of his own this barrage of life destroying intervention.

Again, what is reasonable? Male youth (many) have an outstanding capacity to desire and seek erotic adventure by the very physiology nature has given them, erotic exposure should be expected, celebrated, and most importantly understood. Yet government concludes that it's protecting, and saving young guys by being the police and avengers to a shared intimacy...

Don't ask me to be reasonable! I'm only holding the mirror that reflects what's presently being done in society... It's gone bonkers in so many regards.

again, I ask what is reasonable? Only society can answer that... or can they? Are the masses capable in this frenzy of "Goliath Existence" can culture take a step back and actually correct itself? Or has in fact the hysteria taken over, where this kind of hunger games now rules?



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