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I wonder if it's lonely being a fem-boy.......

Posted by Etenne on 2026-June-6 11:54:34, Saturday

.... and other stuff.

OK I have to admit that Blue Holloway's song "Dare to Be" has really grown on me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NkR5KafK-Yk

It's my kind of music... lots of bass and loud... I just can't do Lofi (evaluator music lol)

In any event, that got me thinking about fem-boys. I admit that as a teen, I did not like fem-boys. I think it was mostly because they couldn't hide who they were and I could. It wasn't that I didn't like them as people...it was all the other stuff that went with it that frighted me.

So yeah, I was a kid and I was afraid of the consequences of being friends with anyone that wasn't able to hide the gay. I am guessing there are a lot of boys that feel like I did. I am sure it doesn't help them make friends. But who's fault is that? The fem-boy or the environment that makes other kids feel that they can't be their friends?

Now several people here have said that these fem-boys need stronger men in their lives to teach then how to behave (to, man up)...but frankly, they are idiots. Doing that to a kid just makes their life harder and they wont thank you for it when they become adults.

It would be a better world if we could just accept people who aren't hurting anyone for who they are..... Then there wouldn't be such a need for songs like "Dare to Be"


Etenne
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