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Re: Advice from BLs who have been in love with a YF

Posted by AK Smith on 2026-May-28 21:57:20, Thursday
In reply to Advice from BLs who have been in love with a YF posted by dolphinkick on 2026-May-28 17:45:48, Thursday
1. My sexual attraction did decrease as I grew more emotionally close to my YFs. Even seeing them naked or giving me a kiss went over my head.

2. It goes away when one or both of you find something shiner. May it be your finding a younger, cuter boy or his discovering girls. You will never as important to him as he is to you.

3. He's 12. That's normal behavior. 12yo boys don't give a shit about anyone's emotional needs but their own. One trick is to disappear for awhile and see if the heart grows fonder in your absence. If it doesn't, then it's time to find another YF. YF are very temporary.

4. See 3.

5. See 4.
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