The idea that mate selection is based in parent-child dynamics in infancy is just a shameless repackaging of Freud. From Wikipedia:An important corollary of this finding is that attachment studies which do not control for a family's social background--and many do not--may produce results which, for example, seem to prove levels of security in attachment classification that have a strong positive correlation with a factor like maternal sensitivity, when, in fact, levels of security and sensitivity are both caused by other unstudied factors from their social background. This means that the results of correlational studies which seem to prove the long-term effects of an infant's attachment classification cannot be taken at face value if those studies were uncontrolled: the strength of correlations is likely to have been inflated by one or more of the unstudied background variables. This comports with past research showing that adverse childhood experiences in general play a large effect in future relationship stability and criminality as opposed to an individual relationship formed between six months and two years of age. ![]() |