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I found the guy driving around trying to find boys out playing to pick them up, vastly different than my understanding of true healthy MAP relations. True many boys are sexually interested. But that doesn't mean that they are to be seen as "sex objects", much like if a woman has a healthy sex drive, she might not appreciate cat calls. This distinction is what is hurting our message. Like all other sexual orientations, healthy relations should be with 2+ consenting people and developed by those people. Am I saying that it's wrong for a man and a boy to organically meet at a party and have sex because there is a spark from both sides, no. So a longer built up relationship or a spark one night, is vastly different than a man on the "hunt" for boys around basketball courts simply to get his rocks off. Boys are not objects. The sooner MAPs understand this, the sooner our acceptance. It frankly doesn't sway me for some to have the argument of I was there, or I knew these people. The film speaks for itself. If you wish to not be profiled as a "creeper" than don't be a "creeper". ![]() |