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We are the result of sex between heterosexual adults, not from sex between adults and minors (I hope). And okay, we can do things like sex for fun. I think it's great if people do that for fun. But if it can cause distress to your partner, it should not be done. And in today's society, there is a huge chance of causing distress if you do stuff with a boy. I'll be honest: I don't know if the sex itself is bad or not, but the way society reacts to it will likely cause harm to boys. So it's just not a risk anyone should be willing to take. On top of that, I highly doubt that a boylover who is in love would be capable of judging if a boy is ready for sex or if he is just doing it because he likes the attention and doesn't want to disappoint his friend. So yeah, if there is the slightest risk of harm, I don't need that kind of fun. It would be selfish to do.  |