I agree. The cards are unfairly stacked against us BLs. Currently, what you suggest is not an option for me due to logistical barriers. But even if I had the means, I would be extremely reluctant and I don't think I could bring myself to go through with it. I think posting here may be the next best thing, if not the superior outlet. A major advantage of posting here is the privacy aspect. Another is the potential for there being people here who have nearly identical experiences who can understand me better than any "expert." |