The strategy...

...of seizing control of the term pedo, of enforcing our will on what usage of it is PC, remains appealing to me. Nigger and faggot are controlled by the niggers and the faggots (and far be it from me to contest their rules, present illustrative example excepted). But its a victimology path, and VirPed I think shows it to be a dead end. Your option two is actually three terms. Four if you add MAP, which is probably in broader use at this point than any of the other three. (More than all combined even?) It will take a lot to move me off boylove, but it is exclusionary compared to child love. And I don't think dividing ourselves into thirds is a smart initial move. (Yes I know it isn't thirds because BLs are already a tiny minority, most CLs are GLs, making it difficult to sustain BL integrity in any CL movement. But why didn't you include MAP? hugzu ;-p